Hi all...
I was thinking about something today.When I go out on my own or with my friends in crowdy places, I find myself kinda on an alert mode. You can see all sort of guys trying to hit on you(physically), a brief grope or a little brush on your side. So I always have my fists clenched ready to attack if any nuisance arises. And I have blown punches a couple of times too. Am not a martial arts expert, but in a crowdy place, just showing your courage in a small way can take a guy off guards and make him run away. They just hope that the girl would not rise a hue and cry over a thing like this, which they might think as a very small insignificant act. But when they see a vehement protest coming, they just back off, not wanting to involve in any sort of trouble.
But, when I go out with my parents, I have never encountered anyone trying to make a pass. Being with parents is kinda a shield. I can be myself, carefree.
I was just wondering why are some guys programmed this cheap?
I saw a movie today. Its called kalvanin Kadhali. When I heard that the lead actor is S J Surya, I felt like not going to the movie. But still i went. Now I realize how important it is to believe your instincts.
Bye all..Have a great week ahead.
I was thinking about something today.When I go out on my own or with my friends in crowdy places, I find myself kinda on an alert mode. You can see all sort of guys trying to hit on you(physically), a brief grope or a little brush on your side. So I always have my fists clenched ready to attack if any nuisance arises. And I have blown punches a couple of times too. Am not a martial arts expert, but in a crowdy place, just showing your courage in a small way can take a guy off guards and make him run away. They just hope that the girl would not rise a hue and cry over a thing like this, which they might think as a very small insignificant act. But when they see a vehement protest coming, they just back off, not wanting to involve in any sort of trouble.
But, when I go out with my parents, I have never encountered anyone trying to make a pass. Being with parents is kinda a shield. I can be myself, carefree.
I was just wondering why are some guys programmed this cheap?
I saw a movie today. Its called kalvanin Kadhali. When I heard that the lead actor is S J Surya, I felt like not going to the movie. But still i went. Now I realize how important it is to believe your instincts.
Bye all..Have a great week ahead.
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Always safe to walk with parents..it brings the real child in you..
And about KK, is that too bad..i have not watched it yet..urs is the first comment abt the movie..
Naren
Better become a expert before moving to bangalore ;-)
உன்னைச்சொல்லி குà®±்றமில்லை...
என்னைச்சொல்லி குà®±்றமில்லை...
காலம் செய்த கோலமடா...
சமூகம் செய்த குà®±்றமடா...
சமூகம் செய்த குà®±்றமடா!!
But you also have to hear the boys musings from some adangaapidarrai gals..
smiles.... i shall watch out :D
sathya
And yeah, one must trust his/her instincts.. esp when it comes to watching SJ Suryah's movies..
Expecting something worthwhile from his movies is the height of optimism.. which even the optimist from utopia cannot immagine *shudders* But I guess you learnt your lesson. :)
I went to the theatre expecting something like "Anbe Aaruyire"...and we got to see something like that only.
No expectations...so no disappointments for me.
Anyways be on guard with the wrong person... not all... haha!!!
We went for watching KK on monday night. I ran out of the theatre in the interval... was so happy they opened the gates!!!
I completed the tag... but nothing as u said... read on..
raasa>>u sound scary,..i mean ur advice sounds scary!
Susubala>>shall i say , "human shield"?oops sounds bad:-)
what are you going to loose if some one touches you
-Oh my, God save ur mom, sis and wife.
WA>>I too wish so:-(
neighbour>>haven't heard any of those musings:-)
Gokul>>ya i learnt my lesson
Bhav>>dude..well said
Arjun>>yes, it does happen in reality..very much...good dat u escaped from the movie in the interval itself...
Choo>> extremely right.u can always comment even without bloggger id, while choosing identity chose 'other'and just give ur name n comment...
the icon u had in oyur blog(I believe it`s oyur eyes) was more beautiful than the present one...anyways..speaking about KK ,I haven`t seen it but I feel such movies are made keeping the front benchers in mind..coming to groping..hmm..ur statement was right..
dont see KK
sathish>>i think i kinda get u...
best part was where they show the audience coming out of the theater and the guy shoves the mic in front of their face.. unanimously they say "nalla irundhichchu".. "kandippa pakkalaam" etc..
out of all the people that exit the theater, i counted at least 25 guys and 1 woman !! only 1 woman.. and the guy tried to shove the mic in her face.. she actually went out of her way to avoid the mic and walked out with her head bowed down !!
sad !!