Monday, February 20, 2006

Musings and a bad movie

Hi all...

I was thinking about something today.When I go out on my own or with my friends in crowdy places, I find myself kinda on an alert mode. You can see all sort of guys trying to hit on you(physically), a brief grope or a little brush on your side. So I always have my fists clenched ready to attack if any nuisance arises. And I have blown punches a couple of times too. Am not a martial arts expert, but in a crowdy place, just showing your courage in a small way can take a guy off guards and make him run away. They just hope that the girl would not rise a hue and cry over a thing like this, which they might think as a very small insignificant act. But when they see a vehement protest coming, they just back off, not wanting to involve in any sort of trouble.
But, when I go out with my parents, I have never encountered anyone trying to make a pass. Being with parents is kinda a shield. I can be myself, carefree.
I was just wondering why are some guys programmed this cheap?
I saw a movie today. Its called kalvanin Kadhali. When I heard that the lead actor is S J Surya, I felt like not going to the movie. But still i went. Now I realize how important it is to believe your instincts.

Bye all..Have a great week ahead.

32 comments:

Beautiful Mind said...

I really dont know what to comment about the musings..is that bad walking in the crowd..Thought chennai crowd is good..
Always safe to walk with parents..it brings the real child in you..
And about KK, is that too bad..i have not watched it yet..urs is the first comment abt the movie..

Naren

கொங்கு ராசா said...

//Am not a martial arts expert//
Better become a expert before moving to bangalore ;-)

Neema! said...

I know what you are talking abt....I just dont understand those bunch of people!People like S.J Surya..........Well.I dont know what to say!

susubala said...

Ya, its always safe walkin with parents and guys never indulge in any sort of mischieves.

Anonymous said...

Oops!! what are you going to loose if some one touches you. Now you can create a lot of hell by hitting a guy who is walking in his way and making him feel guilty of which he is not...

WA said...

Good for you Divya. Honestly I wish I had learnt some martial art as a youngster, it really does bring out one's assertiveness.

பக்ரிசாமி said...

"I was just wondering why are some guys programmed this cheap?"
உன்னைச்சொல்லி குற்றமில்லை...
என்னைச்சொல்லி குற்றமில்லை...
காலம் செய்த கோலமடா...
சமூகம் செய்த குற்றமடா...
சமூகம் செய்த குற்றமடா!!

neighbour said...

Hmm.. it happens.. I have seen it many times mostly in T-nagar Crowded areas..

But you also have to hear the boys musings from some adangaapidarrai gals..

sathya said...

hi divvs,

smiles.... i shall watch out :D


sathya

The optimist from utopia said...

lol@neighbour's comments..
And yeah, one must trust his/her instincts.. esp when it comes to watching SJ Suryah's movies..
Expecting something worthwhile from his movies is the height of optimism.. which even the optimist from utopia cannot immagine *shudders* But I guess you learnt your lesson. :)

b a l a j i said...

I think you would have judged the category of KK, after knowing that SJS is the hero. Appadi irundhum neenga risk eduthu irukeenga.

I went to the theatre expecting something like "Anbe Aaruyire"...and we got to see something like that only.

No expectations...so no disappointments for me.

Anonymous said...

hey div.. yup ... we must definitely b on gaurd .. be it frenz or parents... at the end.. we gonna b alone only .. So just be on alert always . no matter what dude ... !!!

Bhavna Neel said...

hey that was me bhav!!!without knowing put anonymous

Gangadhar said...

Have a nice weekk ahead to you too,divya!!

Arjun.C.N said...

Does all this happen with guys??? I have never seen all this happen other than movies... not even in chennai in a crowded - peak hr - time bus!!!

Anyways be on guard with the wrong person... not all... haha!!!

We went for watching KK on monday night. I ran out of the theatre in the interval... was so happy they opened the gates!!!

I completed the tag... but nothing as u said... read on..

Sathish said...

mmm... ready to fight to hold fast to an illusion from another illusion.. :))

Anonymous said...

tats exactly the way it has to be ... each one takes are fo themselves !!! great goin babe !!!

Anonymous said...

the above was me...choo he he he !!sorry

Divya.B said...

Naren>>I dunno abt chennai crowd..i saw some reviews about the movie in blogs yesterday, u may try tht too..


raasa>>u sound scary,..i mean ur advice sounds scary!

Divya.B said...

neema>>hi mate..we share the same opinion....


Susubala>>shall i say , "human shield"?oops sounds bad:-)

Divya.B said...

anon>>I am NOT gonna hit a guy who dint do anything...OK?
what are you going to loose if some one touches you
-Oh my, God save ur mom, sis and wife.

WA>>I too wish so:-(

Divya.B said...

pakri>>:-)

neighbour>>haven't heard any of those musings:-)

Divya.B said...

sathya>>ya...just see ofr yourself...

Gokul>>ya i learnt my lesson

Divya.B said...

balaji>>this was the first ever sjs movie i'e seen...

Bhav>>dude..well said

Divya.B said...

gangadhar>>thx

Arjun>>yes, it does happen in reality..very much...good dat u escaped from the movie in the interval itself...

Divya.B said...

sathish>>i dont get u


Choo>> extremely right.u can always comment even without bloggger id, while choosing identity chose 'other'and just give ur name n comment...

CRYSTALS said...

hi divya,
the icon u had in oyur blog(I believe it`s oyur eyes) was more beautiful than the present one...anyways..speaking about KK ,I haven`t seen it but I feel such movies are made keeping the front benchers in mind..coming to groping..hmm..ur statement was right..

Sathish said...

Touch is to sense. We believe a touch of the opposite sex brings pleasure.. which is more a belief than a fact... so the defence against it ...

Divya.B said...

crystals>>ya those eyes were mine. beautiful? ppl told it was scary..lol...neway i love changes...so changed it...
dont see KK

sathish>>i think i kinda get u...

Arvind said...

Crowdy places = (C)rowdy places.

P.R.A.D said...

Punchu vittirukeengala ?? Neenga enna Captain Vijayakanth Fan'a???

Sundar Narayanan said...

just saw the sun tv thirai vimarsanam for the sj surya movie yesterday.. dont think will watch it..

best part was where they show the audience coming out of the theater and the guy shoves the mic in front of their face.. unanimously they say "nalla irundhichchu".. "kandippa pakkalaam" etc..

out of all the people that exit the theater, i counted at least 25 guys and 1 woman !! only 1 woman.. and the guy tried to shove the mic in her face.. she actually went out of her way to avoid the mic and walked out with her head bowed down !!

sad !!